Different Pond, Different Fish
Issue 10 March 2004

Australian Practicalities

Wearing a Veil in Australia

Tell all the female Moslem students, not to worry about wearing a veil. I still wear my veil all the time. I happen to be the only one wearing a veil in my class but it’s ok. My friends here don’t ask much about religion, one of my close friend's doesn’t even have a religion, but we get along well. 

I guess they care more about what I think, my opinion and different perspectives rather than what I’m wearing everyday. (Ria Hakim)

Cartoon "brave to wear that"

Women in veils, I think, are quite common here at St. Lucia (Queensland Uni) campus area. In Australia everyone seems to have the right to dress they way they want. An Australian woman once even made a kind of compliment to a friend of mine about wearing her veil. She said, “you must be a brave woman to wear the veil here, dear”! So, I think people here do not judge you just by the clothes you wear…..
(Leny Raiyon)

Crossing the Road

The story happened when I was a newcomer in Canada. One day I was walking along a wide busy street just to get used to the city. I stopped walking and stood on the edge of the street because I didn’t have an idea where to go next. But to my surprise, all the vehicles (ranging from bikes to big trucks and buses) in the street stopped suddenly. I wondered “ Why do they stop at once? What is happening?” Fortunately I realised that I was standing near a cross walk (zebra crossing) and it came to my mind that perhaps the drivers were giving me the chance to cross the street. Then, of course, I had to cross the wide busy street by accident, because in fact I didn’t mean to. Well, it’s OK though because I enjoy crossing the street as I could cross it in a relaxed way without having any difficulty - not like in Indonesia. (Harto)

Cartoon Zebra Crossing

A Doggy Bag

One day my friend and I invited a guest from Europe to have lunch in a famous seafood restaurant. We ordered plenty of food such as fish, shrimp, squid and traditional vegetables. The food was very tasty and my guest enjoyed it very much. Because we ordered too much food, we could not eat all the fish. After finishing our lunch, there was still one big fish that had just been eaten a little bit. So, my friend asked the waiter to wrap the fish and put it in the bag while thinking that this fish could be served again for our next meal. Suddenly, my guest said: “Yes, it is a good idea, we also do it in our country for giving food to our dog, we call it a doggy bag”. My friend and I were very surprised and looked at each other. We spontaneously said: “yes, we do that too”. We just realized that people are not accustomed in his country to serve the remains of food at home. (Erick)

Don’t you believe it Erick! It certainly is common in Australia to take the leftovers home to eat later especially if they have hardly been touched. Some people might ask for a ‘doggy bag’ but they certainly don’t intend wasting that delicious food on their dog! It might be that they are embarrassed to ask for the leftovers directly.

Cartoon "doggy bag"

Serve Yourself

One job that is done by almost all adult Australians who can drive is petrol pump attendant. Why? Because unlike Indonesia where there are lots of people to fill our tanks, in Australia we have to fill the tank ourselves and then pay in the petrol station shop. Petrol stations are open 24 hours and the prices are displayed on a large notice board so you can choose the cheapest. Unleaded petrol is used which cuts down on pollution. (Eny)

Cartoon "serve yourself"



In This Issue

Featured Topic - Differences in Face to Face Communication:
Vertical and Horizontal Relationships
in Indonesia and Australia

Asking for Help and Saying Thank You
Letter from the Editor
What's in This Issue?
Don't Smile When you Say You are Sorry!
Eastern and Western Cultures
How to Make a Negative Request in Australia
Being Polite in America
Being Assertive in Australia

Language and Communication:
Light-hearted Swearing in Australian and Manadonese Culture
Mispronunciation Leads to Miscommunication
Where on Earth am I Now?
Australian Communication Style
How Australians Use Slang

Ask Bruce and Sheila:
What are you staring at?
A question about eye contact in Australia

Ask Bruce and Sheila:
Visiting an Australian Home
Hello Boy?
Cultural Awareness Raising Quiz

Cross Cultural Differences in How You Should Talk to a Stranger:
How to begin a conversation in Australia and Indonesia
How to establish rapport with a stranger in Australia and Indonesia
Opening a conversation with a native speaker

Differences in Academic Culture:
Negotiating with lecturers in Australia
Australian Academic Culture
Going to a lecturer with a problem

Origins of Indonesian Academic Culture

Australian Practicalities:
Wearing a Veil in Australia
Crossing the Road
A Doggy Bag
Serve Yourself

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